Saying Goodbye

The week before Christmas was a very emotional seven days of saying goodbye to friends and family members. We enjoyed dinner with Merrill and Melinda Barney, as well as with Rex and Vicki Lewis. We also had many people stop by the house to wish us the best. Kaytee was with us when we spoke in Sacrament meeting on Sunday, December 19 and wept openly as people shared their feelings about us leaving. Allysa and Stacy stopped by - along with their kids and boyfriends - to give us hugs and kisses and to collect food from our pantry and freezer.

A day or so before Christmas we drove to Ogden for two delightful nights with Kelly, Gary and Whitney. We ate, played games and enjoyed our time together before traveling to Pleasant Grove for an evening with Michael, Tara and Lilly. David, Jan’L, Kaler, Kole and Kyle, Kris, Zac and EJ arrived on Sunday to see us off. Every available inch of floor space was occupied with blow up mattresses and bed roles - to the point it looked to an uninformed observer - like a refugee camp!!! There was a great deal of laughter as four of our six offspring caught up with their siblings - some who hadn’t seen each other in a very long time.

Then came the morning of Monday, December 27, the day scheduled for our arrival at the MTC. Our two strong sons laid their hands on our heads and pronounced a sons' blessing asking for our safe keeping and return in 18 months. There was a torrent of tears from everyone and Kris hugged us both and sobbed, “you’d better come back!!!” We look forward to being able to hug our precious loved ones again on or about June 27, 2012.

Missionary Checklist

1. Submit a grundle of paperwork to the Missionary Department . . . then watch the mailbox every day for five weeks for a letter from President Thomas S. Monson issuing our call to the West Indies Mission

2. Tell the boss, my staff and my volunteers I am leaving (while weeping uncontrollably) then help find my replacement at the Volunteer Center of Washington County

3. Find an unsuspecting Rotarian willing to serve as secretary of St. George Rotary Club

4. Raise my hand to sustain someone new as ward blogger / information specialist / historian

5. Find a home for Sophie, our adorable and much loved Yorkie

6. Sell our cars

7. Shop for the lightest possible summer clothing in the dead of winter

8. Order sandals from Zappos (yeah!!! open-toed and which do NOT have to be worn with pantyhose)

9. Get an assortment of shots for every kind of disease and fever known to the medical world

10. Clean every drawer, closet, cabinet, “nook and cranny” in the house

11. Take a load or two to the Deseret Industries / city dump

12. Finish Roy Nisson’s book

13. Get a new drivers license and temple recommend (because they will expire before we get back) and change the name of my blog to http://sappingtonmission.blogspot.com/

14. Speak in Sacrament meeting

15. Have lunch / dinner with many friends wanting to say "goodbye"

16. Enjoy my very last nail appointment and pedicure by Michelle Graham, my wonderful friend and longtime nail lady, who weeps during the entire process.

17. Turn off the utilities, cancel the newspaper and forward our mail to Kaytee

18. Pack a maximum of 100 lbs. of my earthly belongings to take on our Caribbean adventure

19. Say goodbye to our precious kids and grandkids

20. Enter the MTC

How Does It Happen?

At my recent Rotary Club Christmas party (which I chaired, of course, because . . . well, I am retired and have time on my hands), I was recognized for my 20 years as a Rotarian. My club members presented me with a new digital camera to take on our mission to the West Indies; but, in order to receive my gift, I had to sit on Santa’s knee. Kaytee found it a bit odd to think of her mother sitting on the lap of her brother’s best friend from high school. Under the beard is Greg Childs (who, by the way, has a son who is getting engaged on Christmas Day)!!! How does it happen that everyone around me is growing older . . . while I haven’t even finished growing up?!

Thanksgiving in Denver

We spent a delightful Thanksgiving weekend (actually Tuesday evening to Saturday morning) in Denver with David, Jan’L and their three boys. David worked a lot while we were there (setting up the store for Black Friday) so we took the kids to see Disney’s “Tangled” (a delightful animated movie based on the story of Rapunzel). Grandma and the boys took daily long walks with Sophie in tow (who was a good little house guest). Jan’L fixed a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner which we happily ate until we were stuffed . . . then enjoyed the leftovers for another couple of meals (isn’t that the fun of Thanksgiving anyway?)

I wish I had written down all the hilarious comments during our three days together, but here are some I can remember:

* Jan’L frequently reminds the boys - when they apologize after they have done something wrong - that “sorry doesn’t cut it!” Following one episode while we were there, in which Kyle was particularly naughty, his Dad asked him to apologize. This extra bright little four-year-old responded, “Sorry does cut it, Dad” Needless to say, we all nearly fell off our chairs with laughter.

* During Thanksgiving dinner, Kyle wanted something (I don’t remember what) but his mother told him “no” so he stomped off into the other room, calling over his shoulder, “I think this Thanksgiving stinks!”

* Another Kyle-ism: Kyle and his barefoot grandma were sitting on the couch watching TV. At some point he asked me how I had gotten so old, to which I responded “one birthday at a time.” Then he reminded me I am old all over, “except your feet aren’t old!” I can only assume he had come to that conclusion because I had just had a pedicure and have red toes.

* And then there was the nail clipper incident! Kyle rushed into the bathroom and closed the door because he had to “go poop!” A few minutes went by and we heard a “clunk” followed by his plaintive cry of “oh, no! My dad’s going to kill me!” David went to see what catastrophe had occurred only to find that Kyle had dropped the nail clippers into the unflushed toilet! It only took Daddy a moment to determine this was a job for Kyle’s mother, who - undaunted - put on her rubber gloves and dove in! Another cause for laughter . . . although it was obvious neither Kyle nor Jan’L thought it was funny.

* 8-year-old Kole is amazingly bright and inquisitive! While I was making Master Mix, I asked Kole to find me the shortening. He wanted to know “why do they call it shortening?” We also had several good conversations about lots of interesting topics. Thank goodness for the internet. By the way, for those of you who know the family story about “Grandpa’s waffles,” David’s boys told him he makes “the best waffles ever” which caused us all to break into gales of laughter. Grandma gets no credit!!!

* Kaler, who just turned 12 and is now a Deacon in his ward, really wanted us to stay over for Sunday since it will be the first time he passes the Sacrament. He was fun to be around and got a little emotional when we were packing up the car to leave - even called me on my cell phone from upstairs to tell me he loves me. Jan’L also reported her oldest son wrote an essay about his family for a school assignment. In it, he noted his parents were mean to him always saying “if you break it, you buy it!” Jan’L encouraged him to do a re-write to put his parents in a better light for his teacher. He did . . . it read, “I have really nice parents who always say, ‘if you break it, you buy it.’” No word on the grade he got on this paper, but Jan’L has some concern about what his teacher must think of her and Kaler’s daddy.

* David told us the story of one of his employees who thought the Friday after Thanksgiving was “African American Friday.” David said it was all he could do to keep from laughing until the tears ran down his face while explaining the true significance of this new American holiday his sister Kaytee calls her “super bowl.”

Jan’L is such a darling, but she stresses (as most women do) about her inability to be a perfect wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend, while she has her hands full riding herd on her 4 boys! David - and the rest of our family - is lucky to have her!!!

PS: Jan’L called to make sure we got home safely . . . and to tell me one more Kyle story. I made turkey noodle soup while in Denver. Jan’L and Kyle had some last night and Kyle remarked how good it was to which Jan’L noted, “Grandma Linda made this soup.” Kyle responded, “Well, she should be very proud of herself!”

One More Award

OK . . . my 15-minutes of fame has now come to an end with today's recognition by the Utah Bar Association for providing "exceptional service to the legal profession and the community." This beautiful, engraved plaque is certain to be the absolute, final and very last award, recognition, or pat-on-the-head I will receive for my work during 16 years at the Volunteer Center of Washington County (except for the upcoming article in the December issue of St. George magazine). Following lunch at Little America, I was among three recipients recognized in one way or another. Mine was as the “Community Member of the Year” for the creation of three law-related programs at the Volunteer Center: Youth Court, Court-ordered Community Service Program and our ReEntry Council, the precursor to the current Resource and ReEntry Program.

Actually this award is not given annually because it is intended to go to someone outside of the law profession, so I was even more pleased to be chosen by nomination from Curtis Jensen (a partner in the law firm of Snow and Jensen in St. George), with whom I serve on Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah's board of trustees.

On a side note, Michael, with his usual quick-witted humor, quipped when he heard the news, “gee, Mom, I didn’t even know you drank.”

Halloween with the Sappington Clan

This is what Halloween looked like among our family members. Some are pretty darned cute and some are . . . well, not so much. From the top left: David and Jan'L's three boys -Kaler as a NY baseball player, Kyle as a Shark and Kole dressed for a football game with the Denver Broncos; David showing off another of Apple's million or so "aps"; Allysa's baby boy Daxton as an adorable little Lobster; Kaytee and Josh's Adyn as a Little Ducky (in Grandma's Trunk-or-Treat car); Troy's daughters Thalia and Isela (not sure which is which . . . sorry, girls) as a Fairy Princess and as Hannah Montana; Michael as the Mad Hatter; Tara as the White Queen with Lilly as Alice in Wonderland; and Troy in his legendary (and highly prized) Darth Vader costume. We hope everyone enjoyed this most fun and creative of holidays . . . and got lots of candy!

Taisley is Honored

Taisley Ann Foote was recognized in a school program on Friday by her teacher and school as a 3rd grade Super Citizen for September. According to her 21-year-old teacher, Mrs. Clements, Taisley was selected because of her “marked improvement in citizenship, for always doing what she is supposed to be doing, for being respectful and obeying the rules, for being kind to everyone, for being a good helper and for always doing her very best!”

Taisley was also among about 50 children at Heritage Elementary School who has had perfect attendance since the beginning of the school year.

Hooray for Taisley!!! Keep up the good work!!!

Grandma and Grandpa Will Soon Say "Orevwa"

Well, by now most of you know we have been called to serve as Perpetual Education Fund specialists for 18-months (the above pictures aren't that great, but they will give you the general feel of the country). We feel like we have prepared our entire lifetime and are giddy about our assignment - not to Jamaica where we were called by letter from President Thomas S. Monson - but to the West Indies, according to a phone call on Monday from the church's missionary department! It will be hard to leave behind our six children, (nearly)13 grandchildren and one adorable little "great" when we say that heartwrenching goodbye on Monday, December 27 in the parking lot of the MTC in Provo.

The church in the West Indies is still small after being officially recognized in 1976. There are less than 3000 members in only 11 wards and branches in the entire mission located in the southern Caribbean, northeast of the South American country of Venezuela.

The country where we will serve is about 1,980 square miles on two main islands, Trinidad and Tobago. Trinidad, where the mission headquarters are located, is the larger and more populated of the islands. The entire population is estimated at about 1.5 million; and for those who have expressed concern, the nation lies outside the hurricane belt.

Back in the earliest days of the church, Brigham Young established the Perpetual Emigration Fund to provide the means for new converts from all over the world - most of them impoverished - to obtain a small, low-interest loan to purchase wagons, horses or oxen and supplies needed to cross the American frontier as part of the second largest exodus in the history of the world.

In 2001, President Gordon B. Hinckley introduced a modern version of the PEF in the form of the Perpetual Education Fund which provides loans to members - mostly young adults in impoverished 3rd world countries - seeking additional education, mainly through vocational school and technical training. Career training options include school teacher, network administrator, computer science, systems analyst, human resource specialist, flight attendant, managerial, clinical lab technician, computer support technician, university faculty, political analyst, physician's assistant, physical and corrective therapy assistant, lawyer and judge.

In its first 8 years, more than 40,000 students in 40 countries have improved their position in life through PEF loans for education to increase their career options. These loans have resulted in an average increase in wages - after their schooling - from $179 a month to $756 a month, an increase of 320%

We still need to get more shots (ugh) and I will change my blog name, where our friends and family can join us on this spiritual journey in the West Indies.

Saying Goodbye

Ed estimated more than 300 people showed up for my open house today to say goodbye and to wish me well. All three county commissioners, the sheriff, the mayor, U.S. Congressman Jim Matheson's aide, several agency heads and lots and lots of my wonderful volunteers came for hugs!

My boss, Ken Sizemore was complimentary, stating: Linda has dedicated significant time, talent and dedication in fostering a wide-ranging network of volunteers who donate thousands of hours in bettering the lives of those residents and visitors to southwestern Utah. This network is one of the largest in the western United States and is widely recognized as a leader in volunteer management. Linda has displayed superb motivational and organizational skills in leading programs which reach out to all age groups, income levels and interests. All will miss her excitement, energy and enthusiasm in building a successful and vibrant volunteer network.

My bosses at the Corporation for National and Community Service (Utah State Office) were also complimentary, noting:

You will be greatly missed by the National Service community in Utah. For many years you have been one who "get's things done." Your creativity and innovation is second-to-none (Jake Murakami, State Director)

You have been such a great example of an innovative leader. You have helped so many of us as new RSVP project directors (Jane Quist, Program Specialist)

Many gave me cards - some with money and some with little loving gifts - with sweet messages, such as:

I will really, really miss you (Lynn Espinoza)

It has been a real joy to know you and to work with you in the volunteer program (Crane and Shanna Simmons)

Michelle Hill from Habitat for Humanity of Southwest Utah wrote, "you have been such a delight to work with and so convenient (down the hall from my office). This affiliate was thinking about shutting down last summer but you were determined to keep us going . . . and look at us now! Thanks, Linda, for pushing us forward and keeping Habitat in our community."

Thank you for all you have done for the Senior Companion Program. Your concern, knowledge and compassion have taught me a lot (Adele Burbridge)

I will always cherish our association over the ten years I've been a Senior Companion and I will miss you. You have so much talent and I know you will be a great missionary (Delaine Anderson)

I can't make it to your farewell party because I will be tending grandchildren butI wanted to at least email you and let you know how much I admire you and your many talents. You have done a great job. You probably know all the volunteers by name, because you know mine and I don't even volunteer that often anymore. Besides that, I think you are too young to be retiring, hopefully that means you will be doing some things that you have wanted to do and haven't had the time. Good luck in whatever you will be doing. You will be missed. (Nadine Adams)

You are one-of-a-kind. Thank you for all you have done to make our community what it is today! You have inspired me to always look for the good and keep a positive attitude come-what-may. YOU are a unique and wonderful woman and I am so blessed to have known you (Karyn Wright)

Thank you for your tremendous contributions over the years to life in southern Utah (Dian Robinson and Janeen Holt)

Thank you for your friendship through the years. You have done a wonderful job and helped many of us in many, many ways. You will be missed. (Ila Mae Julian)

It's not going to be the same without you. Thank you so much for helping me find a way to stay busy after I lost my husband. You saved my life. Thank you for being an important part of my life (Granetta Breeze)

Bud and I have so appreciated all of our contacts with you. You have been such a help to so many people for many years (Bud and Shirley Brown)

Thank you for your sweet friendship to Ken and me. It has been a genuine pleasure knowing you (JoAnne Parkes)

It was a bittersweet experience to hug those I have loved and served with over the past 16 years. My final day at the office will be October 31 when I step down from my position. I will so very much miss these people who have served as my volunteers while also becoming my friends.

Is This a Case of Identity Theft?

Carol Hollowell might well be trying to steal my identity. This bright, energetic wife and mother of four big sons (Jordan, Baron, Montana and Bronco) is the "new Linda," hired from a field of 37 applicants to replace me as the Director of the Volunteer Center of Washington County. Then in a casual conversation at the office, she mentioned she and her family were going to have to move from their rental home - which is up for sale - and really wanted to remain in the Bloomington 7th Ward. I suggested we might be interested in renting our house for 18-months while we served a mission. She jumped at the chance! When she came by the house, she asked who was going to take care of Sophie while we are gone then offered to take on the responsibility because she loves dogs!

Now, all we need is that mission call!!!

We've Been Called to Serve

We received our long-awaited mission call letter last week.  Ed was out-of-town when the letter came.  I offered to wait until he was back home before I opened it, but neither of us could wait, considering it had already been six weeks since we hit “submit” on the online application.

We were soooooo excited when we read we had been called to serve as PEF missionaries in Jamaica!   I cried when reading the letter to my soon-to-be missionary companion.  We began telling everyone …. we’re going to Jamaica, but I wasn’t feeling the confirmation of the Spirit it was exactly where the Lord wanted us to serve.

THEN, today - four days later - Ed called me at work, asking, “so, are you sitting down?”  A thousand things went through my mind in a matter of seconds, trying to understand what he was going to say.  His news, it turns out, was that, after all, we weren’t going to Jamaica, but will serve in PEF in Guyana, South America.  Seems someone in the Missionary Department made a mistake.  We’ve never heard of Guyana (other than the whole Jim Jones thing), so the first order of business is to get on the internet and do some research.  Whew!  So exciting.  We report to the MTC on December 27.  Lots to do in 93 days but I can’t wait!

September 16 . . . a Red Letter Day

After 35 years as a member of the Exchange Club, Ed made the decision to step down a couple of months ago, so I had no reason to question his invitation to attend the meeting of the St. George Exchange Club on Thursday, September 16 when, he told me, they were going to honor him for his years of service. Turns out, I was the one being honored as the recipient of the Book of Golden Deeds, the most prestigious award given by the Exchange Club to a special person - member or non-member - for dedicating time and efforts to strengthening the community. Needless to say, I was left absolutely speechless with the award - and was quite concerned Ed was not being treated fairly! I was honored for my efforts to build the Volunteer Center network in Southwest Utah and for other programs in which I have been involved over the past 25 years. It was very nice - and completely unexpected - but felt like a funeral.

Also on September 16, my replacement started at our office. Her name is Carol Hollowell (see more about her and her family on my ward blog at http://bloomington7thword.blogspot.com/). She is darling, energetic and excited about this opportunity. As for me, it seems a little strange to have someone else doing what I have been doing for the past 16 years.

And, finally on September 16, I received an e-mail from our bishop indicating he had been notified our mission papers are ready to mail. We should have them in our hands by the middle of next week. All-in-all . . . it was quite a day!!!

Retirement Party Planned

I am promised in all the Utah state paperwork I have filled out. . ."Retirement is the beginning of a new stage of life. Work is only part of what you do as a person. When you retire from working, whether fully or partially, you'll have more time for the other interests in your life." I hope this rosy definition is accurate, because today was a bit surreal as I interviewed the short list of candidates for my position and my staff designed, printed and addressed about 1,000 invitations to a retirement party in my honor. The cards are being mailed to volunteers and those with whom I have worked for more than 15 years inviting them to an open house on September 27.

Those who already know, say nice things, like, "no one will ever be able to take your place," "you are irreplaceable," "whoever takes your place will certainly have big shoes to fill," "this community will never be the same without you." Of course, I learned a long time ago (back in my hospital days) no one is indispensible!!! There will be a day when volunteers in Washington County will say, "Linda who?"

I am looking forward to the years ahead in which I plan to complete everything on my "bucket list." I accept the fact that it is time to move on, but I will miss the day-to-day interaction of volunteers I have come to love . . . and my wonderful staff who make everyday I spend in the office a joy.

And speaking of surreal, the official day I fly away on my broomstick is now Halloween!

Fathers and Sons for Mikey, Dad and Lilly

Michael invited Dad to join him for his ward's Fathers and Sons campout held this weekend at the Blackhawk campground in Payson Canyon. Somewhat reluctant at first, because of the distance and his still healing foot, Dad made the decision to go since it is likely one of the last few times he will get to spend with his youngest son until we return from our mission. Michael barbequed pork chops and fixed his world-famous Dutch oven potatoes for dinner . . . the High Priests in his ward fixed hotcakes, sausage and eggs for breakfast. The evening included a short program and a list of 21 questions for fathers and sons to discuss together.

Lilly went along, too . . . and although she cried in the night for her mommy, this beautiful and precocious little 3-year-old enjoyed the perfect weather, the good food, and the chance to make happy memories with her Daddy and Grandpa Ed in the great outdoors.

It's Natl. Sneak Zucchini onto Your Neighbors Front Porch Night

Today is National Sneak Zucchini Onto Your Neighbors Front Porch Night! It is also the day I spent five hours working in my backyard garden. In its second year, my garden is still “a work in progress,” but I had more success than last year when it was an “experiment.” The lessons I learned are these . . . it’s too hot here in St. George to grow some things, like green beans, artichoke and peppers (red or yellow). But what grows really well here in our triple digit summers are tomatoes, pumpkins, and zucchini (strawberries also do well before it gets hot . . . and hopefully, after it cools down!)

In the spirit of the holiday, I was going to sneak zucchini onto Ralph and Pam Bingham’s front porch, but since Kaytee gifted me with a new cookbook for my birthday called “Zucchini Houdini” maybe I’ll use it to make Spicy Zucchini Potato Soup (pg. 20), Zucchini Sausage Stew (pg. 26), Zucchini Fries (pg. 44), Zucchini Enchiladas (pg. 69), Zucchini Pancakes (pg. 85) or Zucchini Coconut Carrot Muffins (pg 96).

Gardening is such fun (I think Michael and Kris will back me on this opinion) . . . and in our current economy, it is reassuring to know the 3-foot strip of dirt which runs the entire parameter of my backyard is also providing food to feed me and my family.

After about five morning hours in the garden, dark clouds began to gather. By mid-afternoon, the sky opened up and we got a real gully-washer which dropped nearly an inch of much needed rain in about an hour and produced a spectacular Noah-and-the-Ark kind of rainbow over our desert community!

Grandma Doris' Temple Trip

Utah’s Pioneer Day weekend was very busy at our house. After months of planning, my mother’s home teacher Dave Bills and his wife (Mom’s visiting teacher) Janine drove her to southern Utah to be sealed in the St. George Temple to my father, who passed away on June 17, 2008.
It was the first time in the temple for my mother and I’m certain most of it went right over her head, but she now has the certificate to show her friends. Jan’L joined us for the ceremony where David served as proxy for my dad and Michael and Ed Sappington were witnesses, making it a real family affair (what a wonderful experience to be in the temple with two of my precious children).

On Friday evening, we and the Bills’ volunteered at Tuacahn for the production of Disney’s “Tarzan” but it was much too hot for Grandma Doris . . . so we’ll have to go back to see the entire show (which was wonderful to the point we left). On Saturday, Tara took Lilly out for a photo shoot and Michael went repelling with friends down 300' cliff faces in slot canyons at Zion National Park. All-in-all, the weekend was busy and filled with noisy chatter and kids having fun together. Everyone had left by noon on Sunday, leaving behind the usual piles of towels and sheets, but as always, it was fun to have family and friends visiting in our home.

Last Will and Testament

The e-request sent last week from Mom: One of the last things we need to do before we leave for a mission is update our last will and testament . . . SOOOOOO, this is your opportunity to tell us which of our "treasures" you would like to own!

Michael (Your Most Adored Child and Pick of the Litter) responded: Dibs on the penmanship painting, the picture of the hands shaking in dads office, money from all the accounts, the house and anything else of value . . . oh, and Maxie’s ashes. Other than that I'm not particular.

Then later, Michael got serious and wrote: But really I would like the two pictures. Other than that, just your memories. Tara would like the blue 1930's formal, Gramma Doris' and my mom’s wedding gown and any other antique fabrics. I would also, as I know the list may be long now, like to add my name to the hallway hutch (glass front by the front door) and since Dave has already gotten most of the guns, any gun of dad's, if applicable.

Son-in-law Gary replied: Since you included me in this email, I assumed you wanted a reply from me as well. So I am going all out and saying I want your most prized possession, your FIRST BORN CHILD! Wait a minute, I already have that. Never mind, I guess I already have everything! But thanks anyway.

Kaytee: As everyone knows, the Christmas village is mine (except the blue ice factory promised to Dave and Jan'L). The cabinet in the front hall where mom keeps all her church materials. I would love the brass bed but I'm thinking I'll have to fight 5 siblings for it plus it's all but useless without the original springs. Gramma's diamond ring in the safe deposit box at the bank. And while we're on the subject I really, really want first dibs on Gramma Doris's jewelry. I know I'll have to fight Tara over a few pieces.

But why are we even discussing this because you and dad are going to live forever!!!

Michael: I can already see the gloves being donned. Mom, you should just divvy up the stuff as you see fit and call it good. But if that doesn't work we could go King Solomon. I have a sawzall and cutting torch?!

Kaytee: I agree they should just divvy it all up but I'm sure they want to know what we want. But I'm the favorite so I get the cabinet!

Kelly: I want the family photos, the M*A*S*H video library and the original “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers”. And everything Michael and Kaytee have asked for. Ok, but if you cut the hallway hutch, I get the front half. Thanks much.

Kaytee: The MASH video library?!?!?!? HAHAHAHAHA LOLOLOLOLOLOL Oh Kel, I don't think ANYONE will fight you over that.

Michael: Just cuz you said that I want the MASH library. And the seven brides is not an original. I'm not sure if you know, but you already stole that one. Kris, I believe has the second and Stacy the third. I have it memorized so I'm ok. But bless your beautiful hide anyways.

Uncle Larry: I expect this was sent to me in error, however, I do have something to add: Don't be fighting over Doris' wedding dress, or her jewelry. I have plans for all of that at the Gay Pride Parade in 2015, but feel free to fight for the square dance clothes.

From Troy: I realize I'm not really part of this but if Uncle Ed has any of the guns that once belonged to my dad that is what I would want and I would be willing to pay for them. Just my thoughts. Hope all is well with everyone. It would be nice to see my cousins sometime before we need to start worrying about a will.

Kaytee: I still don't have my own copy of 7BF7B but I still don't want the MASH collection.

In response to Uncle Larry’s e-mail, Michael responded: Can I build your float? Tara would also like to volunteer for hair and makeup. You'll look like butter!

Also in response to Uncle Larry’s e-mail, Tara wrote: Hey, I'll let you borrow it for the weekend! And you're missing a little sumpin, sumpin up top to be wearing her wedding gown.

From Whitney: People, People... I think the M*A*S*H series should go to ME, since I don't think I've seen them all yet.

Michael again: Those sumpin sumpin can be purchased. Just ask . . .um, I'll stop right there

KT again: On his skinny frame??? He'll be totally top heavy!

Michael again: Kelly doesn't want the MASH collection anyways. Not when they are video and they just released the extended directors cut on blue ray with never-before-seen bonus features


Then Tara chimes in: Sorry Larry. Much as I love you, you are MUCH too tall for the wedding gown. Also, it is completely unsuitable for a parade. You need SPARKLES!

And, Uncle Larry again: Wow. This is gonna be ugly...ROFL!

Kelly: That’s not a problem because if I get everything Michael and Kaytee asked for I can afford the Blu-Ray.

And, then Stacy: I'd like the land the house is on, the livestock and water rights . . . a moat will be constructed and you will all have to pay a toll to retrieve your treasures!

Michael: See Mom, she's just gonna hawk it all. That's it, she gets nothing, except she can have the new dog, Maxie part 2

Kris: My parents are going to live forever (just like Doris) so this is all silly...have a great day all!!


Kaytee: That's what I'm sayin... but, nobody would want Satan! That dog is evil!

Michael: I'll take the dog as long as it comes with the cabinet by the front door, the mash videos, and the accounts.

Thanks for lots of good laughs on a serious issue!!! I sent this just as I was heading for bed and when I woke up the next morning there were 34 e-mails (though none from David and Jan'L). Since our family is convinced we are going to live forever, I guess everyone will just have to wait to see who gets what!!!

California and Beyond!!!

On Memorial Day 2010, Grandma and Grandpa Sappington, Kendi and Taisley left St. George for Southern California with one goal in mind . . . to use our free Disney theme park passes. However, we accomplished a whole lot more in one week and 1500 miles. In Corona, we had expected to go to the cemetery to visit my Dad, but Grandma Doris - at nearly 2 in the afternoon - was still not ready to get dressed. Instead she wanted us to watch her square dance tapes. We accommodated her for a couple of hours - until hunger pangs overcame us and she treated us to dinner at Carrow's, her favorite restaurant.

On Tuesday, we woke early so we could be to the Magic Kingdom before the rest of the world got there. With the new park-and-shuttle system Disney has added since we were there last year, our time from car to ticket booth took less than an hour of our precious ride-the-rides time at Disneyland! After getting in free with our hard earned "Give A Day, Get a Disney Day" passes (see "I HATE THAT MOUSE" below), the four of us had a great time together - riding everything except the Mad Hatter's Tea Cups and the Matterhorn, before we called it 12 hours and headed back to Grandma Doris’ house.

On Wednesday, we headed up the California coast taking a quick detour through Thousand Oaks to see how well our first home at 1606 Fordham Avenue was holding up after 36 years. Surprising well we discovered! We also stopped along the seashore to enjoy the ocean waves and the sand in our toes before heading to Solvang, a village founded in 1911 by Danish settlers trying to escape the harsh winters of the American mid-west. We found windmills, bakeries (Danish, of course) and the world famous Andersen Split Pea Soup Restaurant much to our liking and took lots of pictures of windmills and cottages while we roamed the quaint streets.

On Thursday, we took Tour #1 at Hearst Castle, a magnificent mansion designed by Julia Morgan for newspaper magnate William Randolph Hearst at a cost of about 9 months of his income!!! The list of the rich and famous who were wined and dined by Hearst at La Cuesta Encantada (his "Enchanted Hill") includes Winston Churchill, Cary Grant, Clark Gable, US Presidents Calvin Coolidge and FDR, James Stewart, Joan Crawford, any or all of the Marx Brothers, Irving Berlin, Charlie Chaplin, and many other of the (then) Hollywood and political elite. The house has 56 bedrooms, 61 bathrooms, 19 sitting rooms, a "modest" outdoor swimming pool, three guest houses, but the house was never finished. Kendi really enjoyed the tour and is looking forward to writing a paper about it during her first year in high school.

On Thursday afternoon we arrived at Kris’ new address in Sonoma to find my brother Larry, Adam and Tai Christensen and their two girls Kelsey and Maya. We enjoyed a raucous night of chit-chat, finally bedding down on nearly every square inch of carpet and couch - with the youngest of the family sleeping in a tent set up in the backyard.

Tylre’s graduation from Sonoma Valley High School went off without a hitch - and, to her surprise she graduated with honors. On Saturday, Tylre’s friends and family gathered at Kris’s good friend Cary Ammann’s home to eat, chit chat and celebrate her accomplishment - while enjoying Cary’s backyard swimming pool. We are so proud of our smart and beautiful granddaughter! Tylre will begin college at Santa Rosa Community College in the fall. Her career goal is to become an RN.

We also enjoyed time spent with Zachary. He is a "hoot and a half" while at the same time polite and affectionate. Erin - at almost 8 years old - is also a cutie. We are sorry we have missed so much of her growing up years. Both commented on how much they have missed Cuz’N Camp and how much they hope Grandma will do it again some day.

From Kris-e-ola’s home, we traveled to Coarsegold, California to spend the day with Charlene, Tiffany and Bob (and their three boys 14-year-old Ben, and 11-year-old twins Joshua and Phillip) and Tyson and Mandy and their three kids (5-year-old Kylie and their identical twin 3-year-old sons Bryce and Brendon). We enjoyed this opportunity to get reacquainted with Ed’s brother Bob’s kids - all who mentioned how much they missed having Kris, Kaytee and Stacy with us (the only downside of our weeklong vacation in California).

The trip from Charlene’s to home was long but pleasantly uneventful - though the temperature at home was more than 20 degrees higher than when we left!!! Kendi and Taisley were WONDERFUL travelers and we look forward to more trips with them in the future.